Good morning,
Welcome to SR. I am glad you posted. This man clearly knows he has an abusive side of him that rises when he drinks;yet, he drank on your wedding night. And then he has shown you that indeed this sort of behavior is repetitive in his personality. It will continue and the abuse cycle will get shorter.
I saw you wrote Co Springs for your area. Here is a link to several DV numbers in that area. Please reach out. Just to say hi and talk to someone who will understand and help you work through this.
Emergency and Counseling Hotline Telephone Numbers
Also read read read and learn more about abuse. This image really helped me see how I was being ,manipulated. I'm concerned he will isolate you in that house and then control money to make you feel stuck...
http://www.ncdsv.org/images/powercon...lnoshading.pdf
let us know how you are doing Bright!