Originally Posted by
freetosmile 
I get frustrated at this misinformation being spread around. Especially for those who are seeking help for freedom from their A's...and this is the crap they run into. I originally posted, take what you want and leave the rest...but I'll admit that I skimmed it and really read the last 4 paragraphs.
If I would have read this BEFORE I found SR, I probably wouldn't have HUNTED for SR. I just would have went back to being a doormat......UGH!!!
You can have boundaries and leave the addict in your life and still acknowledge that the studies being done will be helpful to people.
If you are with an abusive person - you should leave. The article doesn't advocate being abused.