Me too!! It's not easy to go no contact but I firmly believe no contact is about and for me, not my ex. I don't know how to put into words how angry I am about this article. I Feel guilty enough on my own for abandoning my ex to his addiction. I feel like this article is trying to tell me I wasn't good enough to save my addict and also that the addict free from addiction is more important than me free from the drama and the pain.