You know too... something to ponder.
Why would he support your outside interests like Yoga? He has the best in life. Think about it... he is an A so does not have to live in the real world and he has a wife that will cook, clean, take care of kids AND work 40 hours a week and bring home the pay check. You probably thank him when he HELPS you out and he only has to say "its stupid" and he gets what he wants.
Where do I sign up for a deal like that.....
Why would he want you to make friends to take away from his little paradise? You need to get out for you, decided what you want and then dont pay any attention to the "life of the party" All parties end and reality sets in.... I have to agree he is covering up some deep issues and his "friends" would not be around him if he was not fun, drinking and clowning around. Real friends are the ones that love you not inspite of your flaws but because of them too....
Let him get real and then see who is the "life of the party"