Originally Posted by
hopeful4 
I think it's fine that she expect you not to be hammered. However, I think it's a bit much to ask you to abstain completely. That is just my opinion. This is something she should have thought about BEFORE booking a cruise.
Definitely.
If she is already asking you to not drink, she doesn't sound very stable in her sobriety. I'd mention the meetings on board (thx to Carlotta - I had NO idea) and hopefully she will take advantage of those.
I'm sure you wouldn't get plastered around her, but you have every right to want to enjoy a few drinks on what is YOUR holiday as well.
