Originally Posted by
hopeful4 
Where I live if you cannot agree on things, you are forced to try mediation first. And the mediators are attorneys.
I personally would just let my attorney handle it if that is possible. It would save you a lot of mental grief.
The mediators here are attorneys. They just help both parties walk through it together.
I am thinking of at least calling around and seeing what it costs. I can still meet with my lawyer and retain her formally next week and pay the fee and then let AH flounder and decide if he wants to go it alone or find his own lawyer. We both are pretty cost conscious people and hate to waste money so maybe that will bode well for me in the end?