I know you don't want to hear this Catareta but it sounds like you have
your hands full dealing with your own issues, and his "acting like a househusband"
for a few days cannot really make up for the fact that you end up taking care of
him and worrying about him instead of priortizing your own needs.
Maybe he needs to sort himself out and you need to step back?
I'm so sorry you are dealing with this so soon out of the hospital