hope the transitional is smooth and peaceful for both of you.
Yes, that "raging mother" thing hit home for me too. And my AH hasn't even lived here for 6 months! So glad to hear you have "settled" into living again! Way to go! Glad you are able to head this off at the pass like you did. I look back over the past three 1/2 years and wish I had done what you are doing so much more often.
Take care and peace to you and your family!