Hello Jane,
Did you ever read Codependent No More? This book is a bedrock to putting your focus on you, as you can only change yourself. Honeypig posts The Language of Letting Go here daily. If you like how those are written, they are both by Melody Beattie.
Isn't it sad how nothing changes?
You see his potential. He's drinking it into oblivion. But the best thing you can do is let go. You cannot fix him.
