Do you have photo albums? Those are always good for steering the conversation. You Hogg have time to compile one. Print out iPhone pics, etc. Can you ask them to bring their photos?
I have a huge in law family wedding to attend in a few months, they all like drinking but none of them are alcoholic as far as can tell. I'm sweating it a little bit. I'm trying to think of something I can take charge of that will keep me busy. Perhaps seeing to my MIL (oh god help me) and my darling FIL. They are quite elderly so I can see to getting them settled at the table and getting their plates and drinks.
Sasha has a great idea. Staying busy in the kitchen with canapés or finger sandwiches, crudités and such.
Keep SR on your phone or have good reason to check your computer....important emails.....sickly friends may need a check in.
XXOO Lenina