Wow this recovery stuff is hard. Really hard. He refused to go to my family Christmas and was fine when we left, but coming home now he's smack dab in the middle of cravings and being a real jerk. It's hard to give him space even when he asks for it because we're scared. Dd especially and she can be sassy so it's hard for her.
I know this should be the time he reaches out to someone. He's tried but they're not answering, being Christmas Eve and all I'm pretty sure people are quite busy.
I know he wasn't going to be "fixed " but maybe a little less of an a-hat?