Received a text from stbxah
As you all know I haven't had any contact with him in almost 7 weeks now but he has just texted me saying hello how are u?? What arrangements would you prefer for Xmas day? All very polite but I was Informed by the kids that he had already made arrangements with the kids for Christmas day, he was collecting them at 11.30 to take them to his dad's. So I don't understand why he is contacting me now and asking this.
I don't want to say don't come round, although I don't want him here, but I don't want him to miss out seeing the kids open their presents either. Agh I was looking forward to not seeing him and trying to put him out of my head on what will be a very difficult day as is.