You were asking about how to find Alanon meetings?
http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/local-meetings
Start drilling down to your locale.
If you hit a dead-end link, or need some help -- just say the general area or state, and we will help find your local(s).
Or PM me, and we can probably GPS you to the front door, and have someone waiting for you.
(never ask a career codependent for help
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