I have been working with a therapist for 2 years. She is helping me learn not to take AH behavior on, quit trying to control and learn to start living for myself. This has really helped me calm myself down which has helped our house feel calmer as well. My question is why does my AH lie about the smallest things he has repeatedly said he can't pull anything over on me but yet he continues to lie. This is the one thing that absolutely drives me crazy! When I know he is lying I feel myself shutting down. The lying more than anything makes me feel as if there is no hope. I can actually respect someone if they say "I am gonna do what I want" but I have no respect for the person who just lies. How do you all handle this and keep your sanity?
