Bimini, thank you. You are pointing out my over reaction and that is good.
I guess I would be more open to the cookies with her if some work had been done yet. I have whined about her before. It has been over 70 days and she does not want to talk about AA. Or anything related to the steps or recovery. If I bring it up the subject quickly gets changed to whatever she is doing. She stopped going to meetings. She abandoned her commitments. I have spoken to her about my disappointments. I really can't shake this gut feeling that she is in this for social reasons. And the lady I asked today confirmed that. I guess I am going over this because I have never had a sponsor. This is my first one. But I can't shake the feeling this isn't right.
Oh by the way, I did get an invite to a sober cookie exchange today. And we don't have to blow off a meeting to do it.
Jennifer