Okay. Breathe.
Whether or not you have a sponsor, you still have phone numbers and you have us.
Your sponsor's suggestion may have rubbed you the wrong way for whatever reason, but it's good to have fun and bake cookies, you know? A day of cookies with sober women sounds really fun to me. It is part of recovery. I always thought social things with AA friends was as good as a meeting...and we didn't talk about the program. We ate and sang and danced and drank coffee and laughed.