Originally Posted by
Shutterbug1 
Thank you so much. He calls because he needs something and he thinks I might be able to give it to him. He also hates himself so much...it's awful. He's in so much pain and he is constantly trying to relieve it but ironically he keeps creating more pain....I just don't understand...but I do know that his version of love hurts him and whoever he chooses to "love".
Sound like you've learned the lesson.
Congratulations--spoil yourself a little today because you are taking care of you
That's real and measurable progress in Codieland
