Originally Posted by
myfreedom 
I do not have money for a lawyer. There is some aide but not much helping in these situations that I know of. I have called around before. And no, we will not settle this on our own because we can't agree on anything.
Call several lawyers and find the one that will give a free consult to see what you can do. It would be a good start. Perhaps call Child Protective Services and consult with them too explaining your situation and how you can't prevent it when they are not in your care and are in his care. CPS won't take it lightly hearing that a father is driving under the influence with his children. They may show up at your childrens school to ask them questions, or to your home, and if so they should be matter-of-fact honest.