Hawkeye. He is fully aware that he is not to be at my home drunk so he knows. If he turns up drunk he won't be allowed in!
He gave me half the money for the kids main presents so I thought he had a right to be there in the morning to see them open their presents and see what they got for Christmas, he hasn't been involved in the buying, that was left for me! I will not let that happen again next year he can buy his own and I will buy my own, that way I won't feel he should be here christmas morning.
It's very doubtful he will be here he doesn't want contact because he "can't face the hurt he's caused me". So I think he will arrange to collect the kids and take them to see his family