It's been a long time since I've 'felt' something I was at a wedding and for the first time in two years I felt instantly attracted to an older buff man who has a similar body type to my ex and a macho face... Is there something wrong with me? I'm just not attracted to men my age... I felt hot and steamy just looking at him and reminded me of the exact same way I felt about the ex .. Your thoughts please. I've not felt like this in soooo long. I know nothing about this guy by the way.. Is there something wrong with dating older men my ex was 9 years older than me.. This guy looks even older... Yikes