Ann, You are one of the kindest women I know and I know you, like me, oppose acting out Violence no matter how angry we get. You have taught me much. thank you for being a role model for us!
this is why I advise leaving an active addict/alcoholic. no one should let this disease turn us into someone we are not. And to be honest, I recommend leaving anyone who makes us become someone we are not. I say we leave, protect ourselves and protect the Love in our hearts.
Love from Lenina