Also feel like I'm just bound to pick all the wrong people. It's like I preselected for those who are incapable of love.
You aren't alone and maybe now would be a good time to figure out why you are attracted to those who have nothing to bring to the relationship.
This is a terrific old thread from the "Sticky" posts at the top of this forum...you have to look deep, first under Important Reading and then the last link there for "more"
If you can spot the red flags in a relationship, and learn to see them early before you are too involved, you may have a shot at avoiding the trap of always choosing the ones that let you down.
Read this, it may help.
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ationship.html