Originally Posted by Fandy

Your "zero tolerance" is not going to do squat when he has you pinned down with his hands around your throat, or he sucker punches you so hard on the side of your face you think your jaw might be broken (this was my reality). You do not have control over him with your ultimatums that you think, it is just going to ramp up his resentment, because he is not addressing his real problems.