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I agree with Lexi. You are doing your best.... Whatever you decide will the right decision at the time, more will be revealed. Sounds like you are an amazing mother. The system is so flawed, who knows maybe this judge or marital whatever is an addict. Too bad we have to wait for bad things to happen until changes are made and voices are heard.
Yup... I have more control over this outcome than I do gambling with a 30 min hearing which may well alter the parenting plan until a final hearing ....
In the agreement it states that if he shows positive or refuses the breathalyzer 3 x over any period of time, his driving and overnights end and parenting time ceases until further court order.