My attorney (who nicely has not withdrawn yet but will NOT be in court for a hearing with me unless I come up with $10,000 in two weeks) has told me that she thinks a hearing is a gamble and that a judge could order what we are agreeing to anyway but temporary which would give him time to feign getting his act together and ask for more.
If he signs this agreement this is it. For the next 3 years because it will be final and cant be challenged for 3 years per the way the state does things.
I really am torn and not sure what to do.
I believe that settling on this, he will exercise the time for a period of time and then stop and at least I will be done fighting.
I cant believe I am even considering this but I am not sure the gamble of all the what if's with the judge are worth it....