Thanks all! I appreciate the feedback.
I could stay with my parents for a period of time if needed, yes.
And removing the items I don't want him to take is a good idea, thanks hopeful.
"You know, you're sounding just like an alcoholic: I'm going to quit drinking after the holidays/vacation/this stressful period at work is over. If you were committed to quitting, you'd quit now."
True! I never thought of it quite like that