I feel for you. My husband is still drinking, and I find him annoying once he has a buzz. He brushes everything off, gets in my face (jokingly) and finally passes out on the couch. Not only do I get irritated but I've been really lonely lately. I don't have an answer, but I'm in the same boat as you. Once he passes out I watch tv and drink tea until I'm tired and then I leave him on the couch and go to bed. I'm hoping he will quit with me, or it might kill our marriage. I never thought I would have to choose between my sobriety and my husband but we are living in different worlds
Makes me depressed.