I moved up here to take a job. It was originally meant to be a temporary arrangement, with me eventually transferring back where I came from. To be honest, I have some severe misgivings about going back there. Just not sure what to do….
If I said this to my sponsor she would tell me to pray about it. I would then look at her blankly and then she would tell me to meditate about it.
I'm personally more of a pros and cons list and take a poll of informed people kind of a gal.
I do agree that your living arrangements don't sound very peaceful. Maybe a move to a different home in your current town would help you feel a little more grounded in your current area.
Regarding the worry about the animals…I think my sponsor would tell me that it's a let go and let God kind of a thing. There isn't much impact you can have with your pets whether your 20 minutes away or 2.5 hours away since you're not living with them. Do you own a home together and he's living in it without you?
Sending hugs.