To Aysha,
Thank you so much for your words of wisdom. My son is an addict and I am constantly living in fear and anxiety. Something about hearing from the other side ( you!) has really calmed me down . I keep second guessing myself about what I should do etc. He lives across the country and right now is out of communication with us. It is agonizing.
Thank you for your honest look at everything....I don't want to enable in any way but the fear of horrible things happening is always there. Thank you again!