Members of NA may not be informed about Nar-Anon. Some places have NA meetings and Nar-Anon meetings going on at the same time (different rooms in the same church, for instance) and have someone to direct people to the right group. I think that is somewhat unusual, however. The link you were given will show you where Nar-Anon meetings are. If there is not a meeting in your area there is a Nar-Anon Forum that has online meetings. There is also a site In The Rooms that has some online chats and meetings. Some locations may not have Nar-Anon but have Al-Anon meetings. I am sorry you couldn't find a meeting for you when you needed one so badly.