Originally Posted by lizatola

Oh, good idea about the fraud warning. Actually, he told me that I was totally welcome to date and see other people, if I wanted to. He sees this as an agreement so that we can save some money yet move on with our lives. And, I just sat there was was like, "WHAT?? HUH???" Realizing that he was dead serious and that was when I was very glad that I had the forethought to record the conversation. Not that I can use it in the future, but it's good for me to go back and really listen to exactly what he said that made sense and what he said that didn't so that I can prepare myself for the future.