Originally Posted by
zoso77 
Because he's an addict, and this is what addicts do.
I know, I know. Sounds too simple, and it's probably not what you want to hear. But what I would encourage you to do is, instead of focusing on what he's doing and why he's doing it, focus on your choices.
As I said in my original response to you, your boundaries are very permeable. You need to ask yourself why you're allowing him to still be in the picture. "Because you love him" does not qualify as an answer.
Thank you Zoso77,
Actually what you had said is exactly what I need to hear. Your right with everything you had said in your responses. I don't even think that I can tell you why I still want to be with him, because I honestly don't know why. & saying I love him is just an excuse as to why I think I want to stay with him. I think that I need to figure myself out as well as him needing to figure himself out. We both have a lot of emotions running thru our heads. I'm just trying to be the stronger person in this situation. It's hard but it's whats best.
Thank you for your response.