Originally Posted by
wanttobehealthy 
Someone explain to me whether I am just a totally, utterly judgmental b*itch OR whether I am not alone in this....
It's purely platonic with he and I by the way.
As a grammar nazi, I'm sure you meant to use object pronouns in your prepositional phrase (instead of subject pronouns):
"It's purely platonic with him and me, by the way."
Although I *notice* grammar errors, I don't judge them as much as I used to. I have discovered that when I am disturbed, the problem is with me. I can only change myself. Becoming less judgmental was top of the list for me. I am human and I make mistakes. You are human and you make mistakes, even dreaded grammar mistakes like the one above.
We are each a work in progress.
ps - my favorite is the common misspelling of "definite". Definate, defiant, and all the other spellings for that word that people can imagine. grrr! lol
Glad you are here.