Hi Rachinator and welcome to this side of the street
You have gotten some really good feedback re your AH on this thread so I just wanted to give you a gentle reminder as a fellow double winner to
put the oxygen mask on first.
Whatever you are doing is working (congrats on 34 days, that's awesome) so I'd suggest you don't let it slide while your focus and attention are drawn to the alcoholic's health issues (which could be complicated by his own doings and quacking) especially since you are in early sobriety.
So keep posting here for support but also keep up the good work with your
own recovery from alcoholism.
Hugs