Originally Posted by
TerpGal 
And I have to ACCEPT that they think those things and I cannot change it.
However, for me, if someone is saying negative or hurtful things to me or about me..........THEY MUST BE TRUE.
I know what you mean. When my alcoholic sister went of the deep end and started having seizures and ended up on life support, one of her main enabler friends I'd never met came out of the wordwork and made some snipping comment about "oh... I know ALL ABOUT YOU". I just said "I'm sure you do... through a foggy lens at that" and I blew her off never to communicate with her again through the episode.