Need advice, fallen for an alcoholic
My personal life experience says, unfall for him
Best to educate yourself about addiction.
I was clueless as to what life with an addict would be like.
If i was granted one "do over" in life, it would be to have never gotten involved with his selfish azz.
I do not believe you are looking for advice, as I believe you already know something isn't right in this picture. His "come here, go away" routine is your answer. He currently is unavailable to be in an emotional relationship.
If you are searching for a committed relationship, sad to say, but he isn't the one. He has to work on himself at this point, and really cannot offer you what you deserve.
If it was me , I'd run like hell, in the opposite direction.
Keep searching for your answers, we are here to be your sounding board.