I have fallen hard for someone in recovery, i personally am not an alcoholic so it doesnt bother me i am willing to take on everything with it
You really need to educate yourself before you make such a decision.
He needs to dedicate himself to his recovery. End of story.
You can offer support from a distance , but I would go about life as usual and
see where things end up. Do not be a distraction to his recovery and more importantly don't short change yourself from a nice normal ,peaceful, sane existence sans alcoholic. (in recovery or not)