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Old 10-26-2014, 04:37 PM
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loll
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Need advice, fallen for an alcoholic

I have fallen hard for someone in recovery, i personally am not an alcoholic so it doesnt bother me i am willing to take on everything with it however i have been feeling a bit insecure. Obviously the meetings etc are another world, one which at the moment im not really invited in on. We are so close but he can switch off and just decide that hes not ready to be with me, and calls me a 'temptation' and that he must resist me sometimes he gets so wound up into these thoughts that its impossible to get him out of it and im left a bit broken, once he comes around though it feels like the strongest love in the world. He doesnt talk to me alot about aa but i think he is on step 10 of recover, do any steps discourage a relationship? any more information into this will give me the stability to just understand his behaviour a bit more when he freaks out
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