So Many Questions
I have so many questions. I am new to Alanon and all of this. Does everyone in Alanon need a sponsor and if so, for what reason? Is there anyone out there who has separated from their husband after he became sober and ended up back together and happier afterwards? We are talking now and he seems to be honest with me, and says we are separating because things just need to change. We have a 15 year-old daughter and have differences in the way she is to be disciplined. I find he is too hard on her, but then I also see my mistakes - since he is so hard on her, I feel I need to make up for some of his harshness. I am working on my problems, but it seems like we always argue about the same things.