During a fight in the last 17 mo over how awful it was that I kicked RAH out when he relapsed, he looked me in the eye and said, "Why didn't you just tell me?"
Now in 18 years of marriage, I'm 100% sure I would qualify as a nagger for the ridiculous amount of times I asked RAH to deal with his problem. This is just verbal - let's not even try to factor in body language cues!
So this poll I amusingly think has nowhere near the right number of options and being an active addict I am confident stops up one's ears!