Originally Posted by
killerinstinct 
Hello,
Is anyone else still bitter and angry with the ExA years on or am I the only one?
Sometimes I am.
It's taken years, but I am slowly starting to understand that my XAH is incapable of behaving like a rational adult.
When I expect rational and reasonable behaviour from someone who is incapable of rational and reasonable behaviour then I am only setting myself up for disappointment.
My XAH does not have the ability to make the right choices or to behave properly. He will always **** up whatever he does. He will always disappoint our children. We (the children and I) are slowly getting used to these facts. At least his choices don't affect us greatly as we don't live with him and I will be divorced from him in less than 10 days.