If it matters, he is also currently dry from alcohol for the last year or so. He works no program & talks CONSTANTLY about wanting to drink, wishing he were a normal drinker, bringing it up in a way that makes her feel like he's asking permission to drink again. Recently he said his therapist suggested that he try AA in order to earn to socialize with other people & to reach out to others that struggle in the same ways that he does, but after 1 meeting he declared it "nothing but a bunch of people standing around b@tching about their lives" and hasn't returned. He & my RAH have been friends & in music projects together for more than 10 yrs & he knows RAH attends multiple meetings & is involved with AA but hasn't reached out to him for any info on alternate meetings, etc.