Know that you have the right not to answer personal questions and know the world is full of people who are also imperfect like you and me.
If you're feeling lonely, keep coming back and listen...watch for folks who seem like-minded and who are of your same gender...ask God for help and courage and approach someone and introduce yourself. If it doesn't work keep trying. You could make a friend.
There's people for everyone in AA.
And focus on what's good about the meeting not what or who you don't like.
The most important thing is you went to the meeting. Good for you.