Hi.
Many have no experience regarding AA. Much dislike is perhaps a fear of the unknown or a deep fear it may work on them. I don’t know all the reasons. It works like other programs when we follow the directions others have followed for years. Today there are several million sober in the program which shows rocket scientist me that it works for the people that work it.
Alcohol did some bad things to us mentally and emotionally so perhaps some might give it some time to clear up before making any final decisions.
I don’t see any harm in going to meetings and just listening.
The following is read before most meetings and is part of the foundation of the fellowship. It may need more than one reading to absorb.
Alcoholics Anonymous is a fellowship of men and women who share their experience, strength and hope with each other that they may solve their common problem and help others to recover from alcoholism. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking. There are no dues or fees for AA membership; we are self-supporting through our own contributions. AA is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics, organization or institution; does not wish to engage in any controversy; neither endorses nor opposes any causes. Our primary purpose is to stay sober and help other alcoholics to achieve sobriety.