try different meetings is the key, till you find meetings you like, meetings are run by each group a bit differently than others, some will be quite heavy on god type of things and others are more laid back and just focus on drinking and living each day etc
i myself dont go to aa meetings that are focused on god etc and i am an active member of aa and been around for 10 years so there is room for all in aa like i said just have a look around the different types of meetings so you can see yourself the difference : )
good luck to you