RU, I get where you're coming from ... a breach of anonymity offended me not long ago. After I got over my initial reaction (anger and a sense of betrayal) I realized that, in AA as in many recovery forums, some people are sicker than others. I cannot change that, it's one of the things I need to accept about life. I continue to go to meetings, but my involvement in certain discussions when certain people are present is filtered a little differently. I think it is very unfortunate if that incident prevents you from attending meetings in the future, especially if you're getting help and support from them.