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Old 10-09-2014, 02:32 PM
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Bamawife
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Originally Posted by BlueChair View Post
I hope it goes good bamawife, its good for you to know hes in there and settled. When I commented about the rehab might not know the status of your relationship earlier:



I think sometimes they dont know how family is going to respond to their calls, some people dont want any part, they dont want to know, they may even find it offensive to be called at home, like why bother me ! I think from their perspective it must be like making debt collection calls, never know what kind of response your going to get on the other end of the line. HAHA!

My opinion, you just do what feels right to you, theres not a right or wrong even going forward.
Oh my gosh you just made me giggle!! I can only imagine how many different reactions they get from so many different families!! While AH was in detox, I had the "why are you calling me" attitude. I have moved passed that and totally ok for now not hearing from anyone! Give me a day or two and that may change, though!!
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