Originally Posted by
cazzap06 Sorry to butt in on this board but I am interested to know a few things if you or others don't mind? ...
No worries, cazzap, answering questions is what SR is all about
Originally Posted by
cazzap06 ... do you think he would blame ME? I didn't remove him from that situation and I feel bad and guilty about that ... He is 7...
I don't think there is any way anybody can guess what your grandson is thinking. All I can tell you is that when I was 7 years old what I needed most was simply to be loved. At that age I was not able to figure out the ways of the adult world. _My_ world was just what I could see around me, nothing beyond that.
Originally Posted by
cazzap06 ... I ended up suffering with exhaustion ...
From reading your post it seems to me like you did _more_ than could be humanly expected. I can't imagine anybody would fault you. I think that if you had tried to take on the responsibility of a 7 year old, and with special needs, while _you_ were allready overwhelmed and exhausted would have resulted in _not_ taking care of him properly.
I think you did the responsible thing, you did _not_ place that 7 year old in the care of somebody who, at the time, was too exhausted to care for him.
Originally Posted by
cazzap06 ... My focus is on HIM now and I am hoping that I do get another chance with him ...
I think that is all that matters. The past is done, it's the present that matters.
As a 7 year old I would not have understood any of the issues you bring up. As an adult, today, it would have been a gift from heaven to have had a grandma that loved me the way you clearly love your grandson. I think you are doing just fine with a truly horrible situation.
Mike