Sorry to hear that. When I used to detox off H I had to go to a hotel. #1 I didn't want my kids or wife seeing me like that. #2 3 kids running around going crazy made the detox more difficult. #3 My wife especially Did Not Want to see me in that condition.
Yes it is kind of selfish and I thank God my wife stuck with me although maybe her leaving would have got me to my bottom sooner who knows. Anyway I am sure your detox is not going to be as bad as mine were, but just a thought.
Keep your head up! Good Luck!!!