I'm also....
I'm also a believer in the power of constructive comment and criticism, allied with the fact that, now in sobriety I look for credibility in all people, including myself and things...
Leaving me tending to like people for who they are, not what they are. Regardless of race, class or gender including age and (dis)ability...
All of which on first reading, may sound pious and pompous but it isn't, using the same common sense and discretion, it makes life so much easier...thank you.